My hope is that if I can share my experience of been a business owner and a new mummy it will help others out there know that they are doing an ace job!
Tuesday 8th of August 2023 I am currently into my 7 month of procasternation, this blog has been written in my head since I gave birth to my baby boy, back when I thought having a baby would be an breeze and I would give birth to a child that fit around my life style and nothing at all would change despite the amount of people telling me other wise.
Full transparency, the thought of writing about my life and my experiences completely freak me out. Therefore I will be asking you to share your experiences and support others before they give birther and forever afterwards.
At the time of me writing this I am a 2x agency owner, an influencer manager and a car dealership owner and a mummy of one.
My hope is that if I can share my experience of been a business owner and a new mummy it will help others out there know that they are doing an ace job and whatever you are going through right now will pass and you will live to tell your tail.
Above that, I want to share ideas, health support and fitness with the help of some amazing women who are experts in this field.
“The Indeinal stage”
November 2022 myself and my partner Mr J have recently completed a big house move after I decided to move us into a caravan whilst pregnant for the simple reason, I couldn’t stand the smell of carpets.
I made us leave our beautiful newly built cottage in the middle of the Yorkshire dales with vast sensory and beautiful wildlife to a very small caravan on a camp site for the best part of 3 months. Now that is an experience I do not wish on anyone, never mind a heavily pregnant, hormonal women.
Having a shower in a normal sized shower is difficult, having a shower in a caravan sized shower when you can’t see your toes is something else!
After the longest 3 months of my life, living in a shoe box I finally found us a new home where, we would settle and be happy however, it needed gutting!
Since speaking to other mums to be, it seems to be a running theme within the pregnancy stage that we want to move home or complete a full renovation in around 7 months. Could this be the true definition of nesting?
Anyway, due to this I had multiple conversations with decorators, carpenters, kitchen fitters etc and they all told me the same thing “your life will change over night” and asked the same question… Are you prepared?
Each time I would say yes of course, my baby is going to be a dream. I am going to have him fit around my lifestyle and nothing will change. It can’t change I am just too busy and career driven for that.
There is 2 things wrong with the above statement, I now know that nothing can prepare you for childbirth and everything changes (at least for a little while at least)
At this point in my life the only plan I had ever had is make a tone of money and travel the world, so the thought of that plan changing terrified me.
As I write this now, they plan is still the same but it has so much more love, happiness and purpose attached to it. As I continue on my journey of supporting and helping you through what can sometimes see the worst time ever you will slowly become to realise how magical this experience truly is, its just made easier when you have the right help and support to back it up.
You can do this lots of love B x
If you would like to share your experience on this blog, please just drop me an email. Brogan@marketingadventures.co.uk with a subject of After Birth Club.
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